I failed

You remember when we were in school and the teacher would let us grade our own work? It was so … More

Sex, sex, sex

This world can be so confusing at times. It’s full of mixed messages which are swallowed up by the naive … More

Other fish

Disclosing my HIV status is usually one of the first things I do when I meet people. I mean, it’s … More

Why they lie though?

“Go to school,” they said. “You’ll get a good job,” they said. Yea, yea, yea. I did that. But how … More

Disposable

So, you have a conundrum. (I said “you” because I want you to feel it.) I want you to try … More

Sleep when I die?

One time, I quit a job. It was a pretty good job too. Probably the most money I ever made … More

Sister Mom

Come on man. I know we don’t want to talk about, or even think about it. But we got to. … More

In my head

How can a trip to the nail salon remind one of HIV related stigma, you ask? Like this … Lemme … More

Help or shut up

I’ve been reading lately a lot about the expectations that we have of young teenage girls. We expect for them … More

One too many

I was in a Facebook group one day and the question was posed: Would you date someone who is HIV … More

Get off the wave

Today is the last day of the year and you already know what that means: New year, new me! GTFOH … More